Why do my friends only call me when they need something?

Calling you when they need something can be a sign of immense trust and friendship – or it can be a sign of abuse. It all depends on what they want, how they ask for it and on how they treat you before, during and after your giving of it.

What do you call someone who only calls when they need something?

Originally Answered: What do you call a person who only talks to you when they need something? One word answer “selfish”. It may happen that in their regular life, they are just “busy” to call you n chitchat, but most often than not, they are just selfish.

How do you know if you’re being used in a friendship?

5 signs you’re being used in a friendship

1. You only hear from your friend when she needs something.
2. Your friend betrays your confidence for personal gain.
3. Your friend makes plans with your friends – without you.
4. Her attitude toward you changes for the worse.
5. She’s insincere in her interest in you.

Why do friends just drop you?

Sometimes, people initiate the cut-off because they feel some sort of way about your friendship. And have been for awhile. Maybe they’ve been feeling neglected, maybe you’ve been really overbearing (and didn’t know this), maybe you were really insensitive (and weren’t aware of this).

Who is a friend who only contacts you when they need?

Who likes to talk to you about everything. Who wants to hang out. A “friend” who only contact you when need you to do a favor, is not a friend. Only you can decide what those people will be for you. Originally Answered: How do I deal with people who want to use me all the time and only reach out to me when they need something?

Who is not a friend for You?

Who likes to talk to you about everything. Who wants to hang out. A “friend” who only contact you when need you to do a favor, is not a friend. Only you can decide what those people will be for you.

Is it normal to just want to make friends?

You Want Friends You may be a person who just wants friends and has decided to associate yourself with people who just don’t care about you. Wanting to make friends is something normal, but you should always pay attention to how they treat you. You don’t want to set yourself up to get hurt. You deserve friends who treat you right.

Is your friend just using you?

Yep, that friend was just using you. If you have experienced a friend that stops talking to you after their financial situation gets better or after they make big changes in their life, it is okay for you to feel hurt. It is never easy to spend time with someone who ends up hurting your feelings or ignoring you completely.